When I was in Indonesia back 1994, I made friends and acquaintances from practically all over the world. They were as exotic to me, as I was to them. So when we talked about our nativeland, we always thought of what best represents our country.
One evening, after watching a rather long kroncong (Portuguese-influenced love songs) singing, my fellow scholars and I went for a susu segar (sort of a night cup). My Argentinian bestfriend Daniela started it. She showed us how to dance Tango and spoke about the Argentinian fire. My English friend Alice talked about Princess Diana, the Buckingham palace scandal (at that time), and Shakespeare of course. My Scotish friend Sofie, talked about Mary Queen of Scots, the kilt and the scotch. My Danish friend Jacob spoked about the Little Mermaid and Hans Christian Andersen. Jonas from Sweden bragged about ABBA. And there was Pia from Finland. She said, Finland is the land of Sibelius, lakes, metal bands, and Nokia.
Jean Sibelius, the Finnish nationalist composer of Finlandia, I know. But lakes, metal bands and Nokia? I was silent, didn't ask further questions. I just sat there and watched her smoke kretek (clove) cigarette in her hippie clothes. She was kind and sweet to me, but I never really quite understood her.
In 2005, Pia came to visit me. She was with her partner Jukka. She was calm and soft-spoken, as usual. So was her boyfriend. They laughed softly. Walked softly. Ate softly. Everything about them was soft, tender, and kind. They gave me the impression that perhaps, Finns are like that. Soft, tender, and kind. Of course, we all heard about that shooting spree last year. But one incident will not change my impression about the people.
Until last night when I came across about the college massacre that happened last week in Finland. (I read last week´s papers during weekends. Can´t be bothered about them during the week. he he he) All I could say to myself was, WHY WHY WHY?
All the victims (except for the teacher) he killed were his classmates. They knew each other. He knew them. What made him do it? And what about those police authorities who waited outside, feeling helpless? And why did he post it on youtube?
I will echo that boy´s thought. He said, what kind of society are we building? Indeed, what kind of society?!
3 comments:
Again a school shootout in Finland? I read of one, months ago. In that article I learned of a shooting that occurred even before that.
For some reason, "metal" is very popular in Scandinavia. Don't know whether they are connected.
But it is not surprising to know that some people do not know anything about the scholars their own country has produced. I don't. So I keep my mouth shut. :)
Yes, anothing shoot out. It's sad. There was one last year, by an 18 year old boy. They're just kids. According to police reports, the two were "chatting" on the internet about their horrendous plan. It gives me the creeps.
I guess, Northern Europeans tend to embrace metal music because it induces secretion of endorphins. After all, it´s no fun at all to live in those countries where you have 20 hours of sun in the summer, and 20 hours of darkness in the winter. :) lol
make that, another not anothing LOL
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